This is a short post. If you want to see US Government Reports provided by your tax dollars go the facebook below......Read examples of posts on that page too.
https://www.facebook.com/Tell.It.Once.4Autism
**********>>>>..PLEASE GO TO THE ABOVE FACEBOOK PAGE TO SEE LINKS TO A NUMBER OF WEBSITES AND REPORTS YOUR TAX DOLLARS PAY FOR AND SHOULD BE HELPFUL ON A TECHNICAL LEVEL IN YOUR AUTISM JOURNEY......THERE IS NO ADVERTISEMENT ON MY PAGE....YET...PLAN TO WRITE A BOOK...OR WORKING ON IT BUT MY MAIN GOAL IS TO INFORM.....I WISH I HAD KNOWN THIS INFORMATION WHEN MY SON WAS YOUNG.....long story but only wish to help...
To see links to a number of reports like:
Evidence-based Practice Center Systematic Review Protocol
Project Title: Autism Spectrum Disorder—An Update
Executive Summary – Jul. 1, 2014
Safety of Vaccines Used for Routine Immunization in the United States
Evidence-based Practice Center
Technical Brief Protocol
Project Title:
Genetic Testing for Developmental and Intellectual Disabilities
Interventions for Adolescents and Young
Adults With Autism Spectrum
Comparative Effectiveness of Therapies for Children With Autism
Medicines for Treating Mental
Health Conditions
A Review of the Research for Adults and Caregivers
Antipsychotic Medicines for
Children and Teens
A Review of the Research for Parents
Therapies for Children With
Autism Spectrum Disorder
A Review of the Research for Parents and Caregivers
*A SEARCH AT THE AGENCY FOR HEALTHCARE RESEARCH AND QUALITY .....WITH REPORTS AVAILABLE ON AUTISM...
ECTACenter.org : The Early Childhood Technical Assistance Center : Improving Systems, Practices...
Web address for ECTA Center(The Early Childhood Technical Assistance Center: Improving Systems PRACTICES Therapies for Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders
Overview of National Autism Center's Best Practice ... a power point presentation from Kent
a guide to providing appropriate
interventions to students with
autism spectrum disorders
a guide to providing appropriate
interventions to students with
autism spectrum disorders
Autism Spectrum Disorders:
Guide to Evidence-based Interventions
Missouri Autism Guidelines Initiative 2012
SKILL COMPETENCIES FOR PROFESSIONALS AND DIRECT SUPPORT STAFF IN VIRGINIA SUPPORTING
ADOLESCENTS AND ADULTS WITH AUTISM
DEVELOPED BY THE VIRGINIA AUTISM COUNCIL
http://www.vcuautismcenter.org/resources/summaries/EBP.cfm…
**********EVIDENCE BASES PRACTICES ON SOCIAL SKILLS 2010
http://www.autismtrainingsolutions.com/resources
http://www.autisminternetmodules.org/
'AIM is designed to provide high-quality information and professional development for anyone who supports, instructs, works with, or lives with someone with autism. Each module guides you through case
**A COMMUNITY LINKING PEOPLE TO RESOURCES TO HELP CHILDREN WITH DISABILITIES AND YOUTH WITH DISABILITIES
Showing posts with label caregiving resources. Show all posts
Showing posts with label caregiving resources. Show all posts
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Friday, June 6, 2014
Dealing with Aged Parents
Do your parents say or do things like this?
You want to put me in a home?
When rearending four cars; it wasn't my fault they stopped to fast!
The trashcan jumped out in front of me.
The curb was too close to the street.
Won't take a cab; even though they can darn well afford it?
Leaves water running over in a bathroom sink for an hour and does damage to areas of carpet in four rooms?
Leave milk out or other cold items for hours?
Other forgetful indicators of dementia of some sort?
Has a personality change; either becomes really negative or sweet sweet?
Here is a letter I wrote to my sister in a journal but never gave her.
Dear Sister:
I know you love mom. You are an angel. You have been in some ways more of a mother to me than mom sometimes. You want to mother everyone, including my son Tanner. You are warn out. I know you are working on getting mom help. Sister it is okay to give up.
Setting boudaries is okay. Or, but mom in assisted living for a while until the medication either works or doesn't work. You are showing signs of being worn out.
I know you don't ask more of me than I can give. At one point I would have drained myself like you are. I realize now that I can no longer drain myself and take care of an autistic son. Plus, ______(husband...fell at work needs knee surgery but ended up with Deep Vein Thombosis, and Pulmonary Emboli...but God saw these were caught and he is alive...with filter in place to catch clots) needs special attention. I also have been sick with high fevers over the last two years. The only thing showing up is high C-Reactive protein and cortisol levels; indicating stress. Well now that I have gone 2 months with only two fevers and one sinus infection; I am exercising and committed to preserving this break in my health.
The bottom line is I can help but not on the level mom needs. Sister, I can't tell you what to do. I can tell you that none of us are equipped to help 24/7. Or, total to fill in the holes. You have a job. I don't want you to carry such a burden. Think about what I have said. You are a loving carring person but overloading yourself may make you not able to be there down the road when mom may need us further.
We have tried to get her to go and get medication that would help her to stay in her home. If being in assisted living would help until medication or a solution would help....that would be great. However, I am worried she may be unsafe by herself. Unless she agrees to having help come in a couple of days a week and going to adult daycare 2 days a week; I feel she must be placed in assisted living. However, my sister is in charge.
My therapist has taught me about boundaries. She uses the airplane analogy about parents putting on your oxygen mask first before placing it on small children. If a parent isn't breathing; they cannot help their child(ren) effectively. The same goes for helping their parents.
Here are some resources that should be helpful for caregivers and some specific to elderly.
http://www.caregiving.org/data/Emblem_CfC10_Final2.pdf
Remember by setting boundaries you take care of yourself which allows you to care for those you care give
